What is the cause of your inability to ejaculate during sex? How to fix vaginal ejaculation disorder
I can masturbate, but not have sex. Let’s improve this symptom.
Have you experienced difficulty or inability to ejaculate during sex?
This condition might be a possible ejaculation disorder called vaginal ejaculation disorder.
This is because I have actually experienced it myself.
I can ejaculate in masturbation, but when it comes to sex, I can’t ejaculate and I can’t feel good about it anymore.
Now I can enjoy sex without any problem, but at that time I was really worried.
So, in this article, I will introduce you to the causes of vaginal ejaculation disorder, which prevents you from ejaculating during sex, and how to improve it.
What is vaginal ejaculation disorder?
First, you need to know what vaginal ejaculation disorder is.
Vaginal ejaculation disorder is a condition in which you can ejaculate during masturbation but not during sex.
This is a very strange sensation.
You get excited and get an erection, but you don’t feel any pleasure at all, and no matter how much you move, you can’t reach an ejaculation.
And the troublesome part of this symptom is that it can easily develop into a disagreement with a woman, because sex is an important part of life with a woman.
This is because sex is an important means of communication with women.
So you need to find out the cause of the problem and aim to improve it as soon as possible.
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The main cause is wrong masturbation
So why do you end up with vaginal ejaculation disorder?
Most of the reasons for this are due to wrong masturbation.
In fact, there is a right way to masturbate that you normally do.
It is important to remember that if you are masturbating incorrectly, you are at risk for many other disorders besides vaginal ejaculation disorder.
For example, the following methods are examples of incorrect masturbation:
- Clenching too hard
- Stretched legs
- Scraping on the floor or wall
Are there any items that come to mind?
This is a good time to review your own masturbation practices.
The following are some reasons why each method is not good.
Gripping too hard
Are you masturbating with a firm grip on your penis with five fingers?
Actually, that’s too much stimulation.
If you are masturbating with stronger stimulation than a woman’s vagina, you won’t feel any pleasure at all during sex.
Of course, it will be difficult to ejaculate and the penis will probably deflate during sex.
Incidentally, this was the reason I had vaginal ejaculation disorder.
Men who masturbate a lot, especially those who masturbate a lot, have a tendency to escalate the intensity of their stimulation.
Learn proper masturbation as described below so that you can ejaculate with proper stimulation.
Stretching your legs
It is easier to ejaculate while masturbating with your legs extended than in other positions because the stimulation is easily transmitted to the penis.
Many people may have learned to masturbate in this position for the first time and it has become a habit.
However, once you become accustomed to masturbating in this particular position, you will have to be in that position to get pleasure from it.
For example, during sex, the only position in which you can stretch your legs is cowgirl, right?
It is important to masturbate in a relaxed position in order to be able to get a good sense of pleasure from sex.
Rubbing against the floor or wall
Rubbing your penis against the floor, wall or bed is a very popular method of getting pleasure from masturbation.
However, this method is very dangerous because the stimulation is completely different from sex.
If you become too accustomed to stimulation that is different from sex, you won’t be able to ejaculate in any other way.
There are many different ways to masturbate, but basically the correct way is to stimulate it in the same way as sex, by squeezing up and down.
A special way of masturbation should only be used occasionally to vary the stimulation.
Failure of sex or stress may be the cause
The main cause is the above-mentioned masturbation practices.
However, some men seem to attribute it to past sex failures or stress.
For example, they may feel strong tension when having sex, or they may be anxious about satisfying a woman.
Mental illness can strongly affect your penis.
It is important to find out what is causing your stress and try to improve it, as well as to communicate well with your woman. (More on this later.)
Vaginal ejaculation disorder gets worse if left untreated
The trouble with vaginal ejaculation disorder is that if left untreated, the symptoms will worsen.
If you can’t ejaculate during sex, your frustration will cause you to seek pleasure from masturbation.
But since the cause is that masturbation, it can make the symptoms of vaginal ejaculation disorder worse.
The result is a vicious cycle that makes it more difficult to ejaculate during sex.
I was in this vicious cycle before I learned of the existence of vaginal ejaculation disorder.
It is important to identify the cause and try to improve the condition before it becomes serious.
How to improve vaginal ejaculation disorder?
Here are some specific remedies to overcome vaginal ejaculation disorder.
Don’t worry. It will take time, but you can improve vaginal ejaculation disorder by adopting the following methods
- Learn to masturbate properly
- Use the masturbator
- Consult with your partner
The idea is very simple.
If wrong masturbation is the cause, then it can be corrected.
And because it takes time to improve, the understanding and cooperation of your partner is also essential.
We will summarize each of these items in detail.
Establish proper masturbation
First of all, you should review your regular masturbation routine and learn how to masturbate properly.
In order to do so, it is important to follow the following three points
- Hold it lightly in the palm like you are wrapping it
- Perform in a relaxed posture
- Squeezing up and down to stimulate
Take your time and slowly stimulate the penis, being careful not to over grip it.
Don’t be in a hurry.
You can’t ejaculate during sex, so practicing this masturbation won’t help you to improve quickly.
But don’t worry, it’s normal.
Over time, if you continue with this method, you will be able to ejaculate even with gentle stimulation.
Using the Masturbator
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This is the improvement method I would most recommend.
Do you know about masturbators?
A masturbator is a tool to support male masturbation.
It is made of a soft material that replicates a woman’s vagina and allows you to enjoy masturbation with a sensation similar to that of sex.
In other words, masturbation can help a man get used to the proper stimulation naturally.
Another attraction is that you can enjoy different stimulation from one product to another.
As mentioned above, right-handed masturbation has a tendency to escalate stimulation.
Masturbators are a great way to improve masturbation while enjoying it.
If you are interested in masturbation, click here for an article on masturbation.
Consult with your partner
Improvement in vaginal ejaculation disorder can take time.
For example, it took me about two months to realize that my symptoms had improved.
So, if you have a partner, you should honestly tell them that you have vaginal ejaculation disorder because your inability to ejaculate during sex is caused by you.
This is because some women think that their inability to make their partner ejaculate during sex is because of their own inability to do so.
If you don’t tell them the truth, the relationship may deteriorate as described above.
Be honest about the causes of vaginal ejaculation disorder, how it can be remedied, and that it will take time to improve, so that the woman understands.
What did you think?
Vaginal Ejaculation Disorder is not just a problem for you.
This is because having sex anxiety can have a huge impact on your relationship with a woman as well.
And most of the reasons for your inability to ejaculate during sex are due to the way you usually masturbate.
It is important to review the wrong masturbation methods and train yourself to masturbate correctly so that you can ejaculate.
Of course, there is no immediate improvement, and you need to understand the woman’s understanding of the situation.
Work with your partner to improve it so that you can enjoy pleasant sex.